New things!

-My little one is growing so fast, his big brother is less jealous these days. Last night he wanted to play, his dad played with him a little, then Dad said that he was tired and needed a break, my son was upset and said, I wish my baby brother was born in June (same month that he was born) and he was my age so I could play with him. I was so touched by his words and played with him myself, I told my husband I wish I had not waited this long to have another child.
If you have one kid and want to have second one, don't wait too long, best age difference is two years I guess, but since I had a hard time with my son, because he was not a good sleeper and in general he is a challenging boy I did not want to have a second child but now I think I should have had the second one earlier. I thank god any way that they are healthy and I did not wait longer than this!

-I have a friend who lives in Canada, she was a classmate of university back in Iran, and most of my classmates have immigrated to Canada. We were not very close friends but we kept in touch, any way she emailed me and said that she was coming to CA for visiting and she liked to visit me also. I said, sure I would like to see you too. She called me last week on Tuesday and said that she was in LA and could come to San Diego on Wednesday. I told her that she could stay over night and mentioned that my mom had an important Doctor appointment on Thursday afternoon that I needed to take her, but I could be with her all day Wednesday and Thursday Morning. Any way long story short, she came on Wednesday by train, I picked her up and took her to La Jolla one of the most beautiful places in San Diego or even in CA. I invited her to lunch in a very nice restaurant and showed her around. I had left the baby home with my Mom. For evening My mom had made a very good meal that I served her. She told me she wanted to leave next day by train at 4:30; My mom appointment was 2:30. I explained that there was not enough time for me to give her ride to train station and she could go earlier or later. But in my surprise she said no, I have to go at 4:30 because I want to go to Orange County to visit a friend and she cannot pick me up earlier than 5:30 and next train would be too late! She said could you change your mother’s appointment!!!!! I called my brother and asked him to take my mom but I could not believe it that she was so inconsiderate! And too comfortable to ask me that.
Any way I took her out again next morning to show her more places and gave her ride to the train station in the afternoon. She just called me after one week today. Apparantly she stayed two days in Orange county and one more day in LA and had lots of fun, now that she is back to Canada, it was snowing!! she likes to move here!! Any way, I felt that she expected me to keep her here couple more days. It seems like some people expect too much from their friends. I myself am very careful with other people and sometimes too considerate. May be the way she is is the right way!!

-I talked to my best friend the other day, who is divorced, she is having lots of fun going to parties, clubs, etc.
She was telling me that she is usded to this life style a lot! I was thinking when was the last time that I was to a club! is it better to be single and party all the time or be married have kids and busy with them all the time? what would I prefer? I thought about it and I think at this age I like to have my family and I enjoy them! My husband said for our age range in 30's and 40's having family is the normal way of life!( Please don't get offended if you are single and have passed 40!). I think it really depends on people's personality we should see what makes us happier in life and where we can find true happiness!!