Sunday, April 30, 2006

Another post

Yesterday I pampered my self after a long time. I got facial and massage. It was wonderful; it's one of the most enjoyable things for me. I love massage. Any way I got relaxed. I should do it more often. Unfortunately it is expensive and I am very busy too.
In the afternoon we went for shopping for our trip to Europe, my goodness we bought almost a suitcase full of gifts. We will visit relatives so we should have bought stuff for them. My brother has gift shop stores and very cute souvenirs, so we bought the gifts from him. I have got some nice shirts for ladies from other stores as well. This is one of those of our troublesome customs that we Iranian have, wherever we go, we should take so many gifts. Any way we are getting ready for the vacation!

Last night my husband and me went to Movie Theater to watch new movie of Robin Williams, RV. It was very funny!
Another hight light of last couple of days is that my husband and me discussed having another kid and the conclusion for now was "No". It is very difficult for me to work full time and have second child, living in California especially in our town is not cheap and our life style is not a very economic life style, we both like luxury stuff, going to vacations, having big house, good cares, etc. I know that I sound selfish, having another kid would be good for my son, it is nice to have brother or sister but with today's life, things are more complicated. On the other hand, I feel lazy to become pregnant again, go through sleepless nights and all that trouble, all over again, by the time that both of my kids are at the age of school I will be about 40 and all my 30's already gone busy with changing dippers and sleepless nights. I know I will get harsh comments by this post but these are my real thoughts about having second child but bottom line is that my husband and me feel guilty towards our son for not wanting another kid! I don't know may be if can cut hours at work then I will re-think about it. I just have started my new job and I cannot even bring the subject of cutting hours up yet. Any way we should wait a little bit more and then make our final decision!!!!!!!!

7 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is impossible to compare having a kid with other things. They are just too different. Would any mother (or father) replace an existing kid with an expensive Manson and the most luxurious car? Well, I know that it is not correct to compare an existing kid with a planed one!

11:37 AM

 
Blogger Ocean said...

to Biandish,

Of course I don't compare my child with any thing in the world and is the best thing ever happened to me. Don't get me, I was just explainig that if I want to have second child I should quit work for a while or cut hours and it would affect every thing for us.
and I know that sounds selfish.
Thanks for your caring comments.

5:23 PM

 
Blogger Valentine said...

it doesn't sound selfish ocean!
i completely understand you. you have to enjoy your life and may be having one lovely child is enough!

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